睇左Mack Sir 最新Blog Entry, 養狗狗要量力而為, 有感而發: 我同SamSam係咪資源錯配?
Sam媽係手無搏雞之力0既典型女士, SamSma係一隻衝鋒型活躍puppy, Sam媽根本好難駕馭。
Sam媽唔係屬於戶外型, 但Sam係要不停出街…
望住俾狗繩界到起繭的雙手，被扯到又紅又腫的手脾，仲有choke 到發炎的雙肩，Sam媽傷心無奈之餘問自己:
我地係咪資源錯配?
我仲可以捱幾耐?
p.s. Sam爸話我寫親都係Sam D衰野，咁事實佢真係曳wor，你想到佢0既好野，請寫！
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尋日改左路線，行少左，玩多左fetch。一晚落黎，sam sam 扯繩情況淨係响夜晚發生，而且淨係發生左一次。响小路行完全問題不大，但一行出大路就出事啦。最驚險係Sam爸打電話俾我，衰仔突然發力向對面馬路衝。當時超多車，嚇死我!
經過呢次教訓，我在想… 令Sam發癲扯繩原因會唔會係因為夜晚D 車燈??
當然唔算資源錯配啦..就算你雙手和雙肩都有傷..但每次見到sam sam 可愛的笑容..你就覺得一切都冇問題架啦..係咪??
等佢大個d啦…1歲多就定性d架啦…比自己有信心先得嘛..
你仲記得有晚我地睇 dog whisperer, 睇到唔開心, sam sam 得四個月大, 都識坐0係我地身邊乖乖地陪我地, 仲識幫你 lam 走 d 眼淚0麻? 你仲記得你每次番到屋企, 佢都開開心心咁樣 fing 晒尾去歡迎我地0麻? 你仲記得我地第一次放低 sam sam 去玩, 0個朝係幾咁靜0麻? 你又記唔記得我地去接番 sam 0個時, 佢係幾咁開心見到我地0麻? 我明白因為我而家係 busy season 而經常要你自己一個人打理 sam sam 係好辛苦, 但係樂觀 d 0麻…. sam sam 細個, 要俾無限0既耐性去教 既然佢同你出街扯繩, 點解唔用 head collar 試0下呢? 我明你係為佢好, 覺得 head collar 會整住佢對眼佢會唔舒服, 但係見你日日都周身痛, 我都好唔捨得0架, 同埋咁樣做係為0左大家都好, 你俾 sam sam 整親又唔好, sam sam 特然發癲走出馬路你拉佢唔住亦都係好危險0既事0黎 pls take care of yourself, both sam and i need you so badly, we both want a healthy sam ma, ok? love u~ sam: ma, i love you too, pls give me sometime and i will def be able to control myself more~
aiya, Sam 爸寫d咁感人既野架。。。
無錯golden retreiver 係好active, 但有時佢難攪既behavior 可能同how we as owners treat them有關﹐聽過there're no bad dogs, only bad owners 嗎? 並唔係話你唔錫狗狗﹐而係可能你以為咁做對佢好﹐但其實反效果﹐我睇呢個website 學左好多野﹐ http://www.canis.no/rugaas/questions.php 乜野叫calming signals, 要比幾多運動狗狗等等… 呢到講其實每日行咁多可能會stress the dog out, when the dog is stressed out, behavioral problems occur, and they'll become more physically demanding later in life. 相信Sam 媽每日咁行法自己都好stressed out, 你stressed out,狗狗會sense 到 and he'll become stressed out just as you did. 不如試下每次行15-20mins, twice a day, that's what I'm doing, 如果想tire the dog out, 唔一定要physically, 要佢地focus mentally都可以drain their energy. 你可以試下訓練佢既耐性﹐做任何野之前都叫佢wait and sit, (eat, play with toys, even for a pat on the head) 等你叫佢做佢先可以做﹐then slowly he'll look up to you before he does most things have fun with Sam Sam, don't be stressed out, Sam Sam can do it with your positive energy~
[版主回覆10/01/2008 02:45:00]Umm.. Stress.. this is new to me, let me research about this! thanks
坦白講我覺得sam爸講得好0岩……..對佢地唔好成日諗埋d負面嘢…….佢地總會有可愛/生性既時候………另外對一般唔識運用choke chain或者女士們來講……..head collar係一種非常好既用具……..而你就算每日同sam去行幾多路都冇用………因為你地既溝通出現問題……..
加油呀！唔好咁氣餒，Gobi之前細個好曳，有一次我吸緊塵時佢又咬人又吠，我周身唔得閒，佢重要係呢個時候痾便便，激到我發晒脾氣，喊左出來，好嬲好嬲…..於是就出左街唔理佢！ 其實每一個養狗既人都會經歷過呢o的時刻，咁sam sam都重細個，係要俾好多時間去教。其實真係要講一句，雖然大家都受錫狗狗，但係真係要俾佢知道你係佢"主人"，佢先會服從你，因為狗狗天生就係有hierachy既觀念，你想佢聽你話就一定要服從到佢，無辦法….. 其實有時候好多野都是我地一廂情願地為狗狗諗，其實多少都係自己投入左感情，事實可能根本就唔係想像中咁，我覺得如果sam sam的扯繩問題咁嚴重，你真的要考慮下其他方法啦…..唔好令自己同sam sam都咁辛苦，有時候要狠心少少架，努力呀！ 我會支持你架，都會努力教好Gobi！